I find it sad whenever people fall into the trap of inaction, inability, just plain hopelessness. That’s even heightened into being thought of as disturbing once you see that there are resources around. A little thinking out of the box might help, one cliche too many. It’s even more disturbing whenever motivation is misconstrued as something else. Closed to new ideas, people will simply fall even deeper into their traps of depression. People who take their positive outlook to full fruition will always win in terms of attractiveness.
People might get tired of slugging it out with their demons. However, they should realize that no one will do it for them. People around them might give a friendly push from time to time. They should take the energy from that push and heave off into virgin territories unoccupied by what bothers them.